Evaluating a Senior’s Ability to Age in Place

To determine if an elderly person can continue living at home, take a good look at all aspects of their present housing situation and how each one affects their safety and quality of life. An in-person visit offers the most accurate evaluation. 

  • Medication management. Do they remember to take their medications at prescribed doses and times? Have they had any hospitalizations or health issues due to mismanaging their meds? If you aren’t sure, look for expired medicines and pill bottles that are spread out in different rooms with no apparent structure or routine.
  • Meal preparation. Can they cook for themselves? Are they eating balanced meals? Are they able to safely operate appliances? Have there been any incidents where they have forgotten a meal in the oven or accidentally left the stove on?
  • Safety and mobility. Do they have difficulty getting around or taking stairs? Have they fallen in the home? Do they have a plan in place to contact help in case of an emergency? If mobility is an issue, can the home be equipped with grab bars, an emergency response system and other tools to ensure safety? If they do not use a mobility aid for added stability, would they be open to using one?
  • Personal hygiene. Can they bathe themselves, groom adequately and launder their clothes and linens? Are they bathing frequently enough? A generally unkempt appearance, body odor and soiled clothing are clues that a senior is unable or unwilling to care for themselves properly.
  • Transportation. Are they still driving? Should they be driving? Do they have alternate means of transportation for doctor’s appointments, grocery shopping and other errands?
  • Socialization. Are they isolated from others most of the time? Do they have friends? How often do they get out of the house? Are they showing signs of depression?
  • Home management. Is the house clean or in general disarray? Take a peek in each room (including bathrooms) to get a feel for their level of cleanliness. Keep an eye out for stains on furniture and carpets and spoiled food in the refrigerator.
  • Financial management. Are they paying their bills on time? Are there stacks of unopened mail, unpaid bills or late payment notices lying around? Are there signs that they’ve been spending excessively? Do they get calls from telemarketers or creditors?

Interpreting the Results

It’s important to recognize that, even if a loved one is experiencing difficulties in some of the areas discussed above, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they need to move to a long-term care facility. For example, in cases where household chores and meal preparation are a challenge, help is available. A cleaning service, meal delivery service or a few hours of in-home care can ensure these needs are met.

For some seniors, social issues may be the priority. They may not necessarily need assistance with activities of daily living but could benefit from a new living arrangement. If they can no longer drive, have an increasingly limited social life and show signs of loneliness, senior living might be the answer. Residents in independent and assisted living need only leave their apartment in order to engage in activities, socialize with their peers and catch a ride to the doctor.

In some cases, the assessment may reveal hazards associated with a senior’s current living situation and signal serious changes in their mental and physical health. Poor money management can make them more vulnerable to financial elder abuse, a burned pot left on the stove could turn into a house fire, and unresolved mobility issues could result in a life-changing fall. It is up to you to objectively look at their situation, be realistic about the implications of what you find and take proactive steps to ensure their wellbeing.

The entire process constitutes a role reversal between adult children and their parents, and it typically is not welcomed by elders. Acting on the results of your evaluation can be challenging if a loved one is resistant to change, beginning the discussion is a start.

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